What Are Pre-Wedding Jitters? ( source)
For a working definition I define “jitters” as being the normal questions one has about the immediate and long-term changes in the indivual’s lifestyle that go along with the act of becoming a partnership or committed couple
Normal questions may include:
- Is this what I want for myself in my way of interacting with the world in ways that must include my spouse to be?
- Is this person capable of meeting my needs and desires on a basic and reliable condition or duration?
- Can I hold up my end of being available to my future mate’s desires and needs and be prepared to maintain the behaviors involving that with a consistency that will honor and satisfy the other person?
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